Kunjalo, uninzi tantalizing isihloko phakathi amadoda nabafazi ngu ngesondo. Ngoko ke, yena kanye wabuza kum, ingaba ufuna ukuzama nge langaphandle kubekho inkqubela. Ngoko ke, nakanjani, sahamba emva yam dorm. Kwaba yakhe yokuqala ixesha kulala nge Isitshayina umntu. Lo wesithathu installment wam isixhosa uguqulelo a Isitshayina-ulwimi inqaku kwi usekela kamongameli. cin featuring interviews nabane Isitshayina amadoda ebhalwe langaphandle abafazi. Namhlanje s enze udliwano-ndlebe ngu angeliso ad elinolwazi kwi-i-shanghai abo efumana lobuqu malunga yakhe ubudlelwane kunye yakhe mhlophe i-american girlfriend, kuquka ezimbalwa blush abafanelekileyo iinkcukacha. Ukuba ufuna amadoda zokuqala ezimbini installments, jonga”Yena Liked Ekubeni Threesomes”: Isitshayina Abantu Vula phezulu Malunga Dating Langaphandle Abafazi kwi usekela kamongameli. cin kwaye Mzuzu Amehlo Ethu kuhlangatyezwana nazo, mna Froze: Isitshayina Abantu Vula phezulu Malunga Dating Langaphandle Abafazi kwi usekela kamongameli. cin. Kwaye hlala usebenza kuba yokugqibela ngeposi. Ukuthetha malunga nale yenza kum blush kancinci. Sasivuya ngexesha elinye ngezifundo kwi-US – wayengomnye studying yamandulo, Isitshayina, kwaye bendiphantsi studying ubudala isingesi. Silifumene kunye kwaye waba ulwimi partners. Ngomhla wokuqala, sithanda rhoqo nzulu kunye. Xa sifumana waba ngaphezulu abantu abaqhelekileyo kunye omnye nomnye sithanda ukuthetha ngayo malunga phantse nantoni na. Kunjalo, uninzi tantalizing isihloko phakathi amadoda nabafazi ngu ngesondo. Ngoko ke, yena kanye wabuza kum,”ufuna ukuzama nge langaphandle kubekho inkqubela.”Ngoko ke, nakanjani, sahamba emva yam dorm. Kwaba yakhe yokuqala ixesha kulala nge Isitshayina umntu. Kulungile, hayi kanye kanye. Ngenxa yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano, thina bengengabo accustomed ngamnye nezinye ke iindlela abahlala e kuqala, kwaye sahamba emva kwaye phambili kuba ixesha ixesha phambi kokuba sibe ube sowuzinzile izinto. Bam girlfriend thinks ukuba Isitshayina okanye Asian inkcubeko, ubudlelwane phakathi phakathi amadoda nabafazi ingaba mhlawumbi likhokelwa patriarchy okanye engqongqo ulawulo ngabo abafazi, ezahlukileyo ukususela ngokwesini kwaye mutual ngokubhekiselele ukuba wakhe inkcubeko amaxabiso. Yena rhoqo uthi ukuba ndingumntu lohlobo Isitshayina guy. Ngakumbi, yena uthi oku, ngakumbi ndifuna shatter yakhe stereotypes malunga Isitshayina abantu. Nkqu nokuba sino elungileyo budlelwane kwaye mna anayithathela sele itshintshe abanye wakhe attitudes kwiintlanganiso Isitshayina abantu, yena uya? inadvertently kutyhila ukuba yena akuthethi ukuba ngathi Isitshayina amadoda kakhulu. Ewe, ingakumbi budlelwane nabanye, njengoko uza sebenzisa kwi ezininzi isebenziseke iingxaki. Ukuba ndandikunye a Isitshayina kubekho inkqubela, ukuba kwakukho abanye abahlala imikhuba ukuba ndandingasakwazi yamkela ndinga nje ngqo kuthi ngoko. Umzekelo, mna ngenene musa efana ngayo xa girlfriends ingaba kakhulu ekuthatheni zabo ex-boyfriends. Kodwa ngoku mna akhange na wathi kuyo, ngenxa yokuba ndiya kuba oku koxinzelelo, nto leyo yenza kum cinga na okanye hayi ukuthetha phandle. Kodwa ukuze hayi makhe yakhe bacinga ukuba Isitshayina abantu bamele petty, kuba ngoku mna uphumelele uyixelele yakhe.

Kukho amaxesha xa ndimangazekile, ingaba mna care kakhulu kakhulu malunga wam Isitshayina uchazo kwaye ingaba ndifuna kuvavanya nantoni na. Kwaye kangangokuba, andiyi ufuna zichaziwe izimvo zam. Mhlawumbi ke ayisosine ngenene ukuba kukho imfuneko abandon imizwa yakho ngenxa i-zilandelayo: mthwalo. Ndicinga ukuba oku sele into omawuyenze nge-bume. Ezinye Isitshayina abantu jikelele kum bathe ebhalwe mhlophe abafazi bonke ngathi ayixhasi namnye kuba kakhulu imeko efanayo. Mhlawumbi ukusuka umfana ubudala thina anayithathela zonke wavuma le ingcamango ye-Isitshayina ethnicity, kwaye njani sino ukuzisa imbeko kweli lizwe. Sasivuya rhoqo shouting slogans malunga njani thina shouldn khange enze Isitshayina abantu kuphulukana nayo ubuso. Abantu ingakumbi ngabo ngakumbi ngale ndlela, end, abengu habitual indlela ukucinga. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu kuba efuna ngaphandle langaphandle girls. Kodwa xa ndandisele e ngezifundo kwi-KWETHU, kwakukho iselwa ezimbalwa Isitshayina abafazi dating abavela kumazwe angaphandle amadoda. Overseas, kukho ezimbalwa kakhulu Asian amadoda abo bathi balandele mhlophe abafazi, kwaye nkqu Asian-Americans basically beka phantsi ngaphandle kunye nezinye Asians. Dibanisa, Asian babantu abakho njengoko ethandwa kakhulu njengoko mhlophe abantu emehlweni foreigners. Kodwa abafazi zahlukile – kusoloko kukho abanye abafazi abo banako adapt kakuhle kwi-Western ubomi. I-ngokubhekiselele kuba personal isithuba. Langaphandle girls ingaba kakhulu geqe kwaye ingaba oku yokwazisa of personal isithuba. Nkqu nangona yena ngenene uthanda wena, oko akuthethi ukuba zithetha yena uya kwenza nantoni na kuwe. Le into Isitshayina babantu abakho ngobukho. Ngokongezelelweyo, ke umcimbi ye destiny. Romanticcomment budlelwane nabanye akasoze abe kakhulu deliberate. Lo wesithathu installment wam isixhosa uguqulelo a Isitshayina-ulwimi inqaku kwi usekela kamongameli. cin featuring interviews nabane Isitshayina amadoda ebhalwe langaphandle abafazi. Ukuba ufuna amadoda zokuqala ezimbini installments, jonga”Yena Liked Ekubeni Threesomes”: Isitshayina Abantu Vula phezulu Malunga Dating Langaphandle Abafazi kwi usekela kamongameli. cin kwaye Mzuzu Amehlo Ethu kuhlangatyezwana nazo, mna Froze: Isitshayina Abantu Vula phezulu Malunga Dating Langaphandle Abafazi kwi usekela kamongameli. Kwaye hlala usebenza kuba yokugqibela ngeposi. I-ebukeka nto malunga budlelwane kukuba oko kwaphuhliswa organically, ngoluhlobo ezimbalwa. Kokuba kuqaliswe njengoko abafundi ekuncedeni ngamnye ezinye esikolweni. Kuthenga ikopi fabulous anthology Ingaba Omnye Dress Ukuthenga Inamba iziqhamo. kwaye ukufunda wam essay ‘Huangshan Honeymoon’. Wam essay ‘Red Couplets’ kanjalo ibandakanywe China expat ukuhamba anthology Unsavory Ezibini

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