Ndabona ezimbalwa kwi Sichuan restaurant iveki yokugqibela. i kubekho inkqubela ingaba mhlawumbi into. le guy mhlawumbi okanye into ethile. emva koko kwabakho omnye ithebhule ngobumhlophe guys, babe ngathi ayixhasi namnye kuba trouble ordering ukutya, ngoko ke oku kubekho inkqubela ndaya u-mhlophe guys ithebhule kwaye uncedo kubo ukuze ukususela yena evela Sichuan, ngoko ke I. emva koko kwabakho omnye ithebhule ngobumhlophe guys, babe ngathi ayixhasi namnye kuba trouble ordering ukutya, ngoko ke oku kubekho inkqubela ndaya u-mhlophe guys ithebhule kwaye uncedo kubo ukuze ukususela yena evela Sichuan, ngoko ke ndiyacinga ukuba yena uyayazi yakhe kunye ukutya, kodwa yena sounded ngenene annoying, emva koko ndeva yena wathi into umyeni zahlangana yakhe kwi-china blab njalo-njalo. Mna ve ebone ezininzi couples ngoluhlobo: mhlophe i-american guy(ukususela ndiphila eamerika ngoko ke kunjalo ngakumbi i-american ndibona) ukuba ngu dibanisa leminyaka ubuncinane nangaphezulu kunokuba Isitshayina umfazi. kutheni oko. abanye couples ngoluhlobo kuhlala kufuphi nam, kodwa andifuni t thetha nabo, ixesha elininzi andifuni t na umfazi, okanye zombini. keno. yintoni WG. kwaye kutheni bayibize yokuphepha. Mna wouldn t bayibize yokuphepha. Mna ekhohlo. kwaye Isitshayina elonyuliweyo ndiyazi, waze wathi yena s ukusuka i-shanghai kodwa kunzima ukusebenza ngokupheleleyo dresses njenge umlimi, yena atshate umntu mhlawumbi yrs. kunoko ngaphezu kwayo, yena s uneducated. kwaye Isitshayina elonyuliweyo ndiyazi, waze wathi yena s ukusuka i-shanghai kodwa kunzima ukusebenza ngokupheleleyo dresses njenge umlimi, yena atshate umntu mhlawumbi yrs. kunoko ngaphezu kwayo, yena s uneducated ke yena iyahlala ekhaya kwaye iqalisa care kule ubudala umntu, naye kanjalo kuthatha care kule ubudala umntu s ubawo, OMNYE omdala oyindoda onemfundo jonga njenge yrs.

ngoko ke, yintoni ithuba lokuba ingaba ufuna uthetha malunga. nje ukuba uya kuba NATHI. zikhathalele ezimbini abantu abadala kwi-diapers(ubuncinane omnye kwi-diapers ndiza na). yena unako ukwenza OKUNINZI kwi-china abayo ubudala kwaye isempilweni umzimba. Andifuni t ukuqonda. Abantu ufuna umfana kunye nabafana girlfriend, nokuba kwezabo ubudala, ngoko ke awunokwazi blame nabo kuba oko. Iphazili ngu kungani ukuba umbutho woomama ufuna amadoda amadala. Oko ngokuqinisekileyo isn t kuba ubudala guy s athletic isakhono okanye longevity kwi-bedroom, ngoko ke, yintoni imfihlelo. Imali abe isizathu, okanye ubuncinane i-ithemba imali. Noko ke, ekubeni mhlophe akubonakali t zithetha ekubeni otyebileyo. Eneneni, kunye Plt kwaye European olungenangxaki kwi-enjalo tailspin mihla, ekubeni mhlophe kujike kuthetha ekubeni waphula. Mna suspect ukuba abaninzi young girls ingaba hoping kuba imali evela ezi abantu abadala kodwa esiba soiled diapers endaweni. I-phenomenon ka-younger abafazi kunye kakhulu kunoko madoda alikho elinye ukuba Isitshayina girls kwaye i-american yabalawuli abemi. Ngexesha college mna wachitha a ehlotyeni ukusebenza ngomhla lizwe club kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqaphele isihombo phakathi ubulungu. I-avareji indoda yaba -yeminyaka ubudala mhlophe guy lokuqhuba a Cadillac okanye Lincoln. Wayeza phantse rhoqo sikhatshwe a u-yeminyaka ubudala ibhinqa kunye view-size iibhonasi boobs kwaye dyed blonde iinwele. Uninzi lwezi abafazi ayikwazanga ukufumana i-United States kwi imaphu yehlabathi, kodwa kokuba kufunyenwe imali ngaphandle zabo nokungabikho iingqiqo. Emva Isitshayina girls kwaye zabo yamandulo boyfriends. Mhlawumbi i-girls ufuna ngutata nani endaweni real boyfriend. Ndiyazi ukuba akubonakali t yenza kakhulu evakalayo, kodwa ezinye kwe – girls ezama imali, ayo s kuphela inkcazo ukuba ndinako nokuza phezulu kunye. Mna umzabalazo wenkululeko kunye nangaphezulu western guy nge younger Isitshayina umfazi ngokukodwa ngenxa mna ve wazibona ezi ubudala farts ngokukodwa ekujoliswe young abafundi ngenxa yokuba banawo kokuba akukho impumelelo kwi-zabo ekhaya amazwe. Amaxesha amaninzi, bamele exploitative kwaye silindele a docile abancinane kubekho inkqubela ukukhonza iimfuno zabo kwaye iimfuno. Wam nickname kuba la madoda ngu sharks njengoko ndikuvayo ngabo koko nokuqubha kwi-i-ocean ka-gullible (okanye ngamanye amaxesha, hayi ke gullible) girls ikhangela uthando kunye nokhuseleko. Kwi-kubekho inkqubela ke nkqo ekukhuseleni ilungelo, nangona, ndiza ngokuqinisekileyo abaninzi kubo bazi KAKUHLE ukuba yintoni kokuya kwi kwaye baya dlala i-shark na violin. Siyazi into le meko, kwaye basebenzisa kwaye manipulate imeko yabo luncedo. Amapolisa ukunyanzeliswa loluntu mores ingaba ngathi ayixhasi namnye ukuba abe kwi landula kwi-China. Nje jonga rampant prostitution oko kukuthi obvious nkqu ukuya casual nakanye. Ndingumntu Caucasian umfazi watshata ukuba i-ethnically Isitshayina umntu. Thina wavusa iselwa ezimbalwa amashiya wam ezincinane hometown kwi-Mississippi apho racism ingu iselwa evident. Emva kweminyaka (I ndwendwela malunga kanye ngonyaka) kwaye emva ngakumbi ihlabathi lembonakalo, abantu musa t bat ngeliso e emehlweni kuthi okanye zethu biracial abantwana. Ukucinga emva kwi-imbali-United States, andiyi zithe bavunyelwe ukuba tshata umyeni wam phantsi Isitshayina Exclusion Mthetho. Phantse zonke societies k ubonakala ngathi ukuyamkela i-ubudala guy nge younger umfazi, kodwa hayi enye indlela jikelele. Abantu kulindeleke ukuba care kuba umfazi kwaye young ezininzi nje ngokuqinisekileyo isn t nako ukwenza oko (sarcasm intended.). Kwi-yinyani, i-non-exploitative budlelwane, ugqatso akufunekanga mba kwaphela.) Couples abo itshata ye-uthando kwaye nkqu ukuba mhlophe umntu ufumana kuphela ubudala yi-kweminyaka embalwa, Caucasian umntu usoloko ujonge ubuncinane okanye ngaphezulu ubudala nangaphezulu. Isitshayina abafazi kufuneka ngenene enkosi uthixo ezulwini kuba aging ngoko ke gracefully.) Abaninzi i-american amadoda ayikwazanga ukufumana umfazi kwi-NATHI jonga ukuba i-Europe, e-Asia kuba uthando. La madoda bakholisa ukuba abe ubudala ukuqala nge kwaye xa ujonge, kungani na ukufumana younger umfazi ukuba umfazi ingaba uzimisele tshata naye. Baninzi young Asian abafazi abo bamele ukukhangelwa enye nje kuba ngcono imathiriyali ubomi kunye nethuba ukushiya ilizwe labo kuba NATHI. Andifuni t bazi ukuba yayo s vetshe malunga ukuba western umntu marrying a younger Isitshayina umfazi, kodwa ngaphezulu malunga young Isitshayina umfazi marrying amadala western umntu, kwaye sele kakhulu kwenza imali kwaye eshiya-China. Ukuba umfazi kwi-NATHI kokuba ukhetho lomgaqo-marrying a Isitshayina ezininzi kwaye uyise ku-china, ukuba umfazi uya kuba ubonile njengoko ukuba yena ngu ngaphandle kwayo ingqondo, akukho ulwim. kodwa ukuba Isitshayina umfazi kokuba i-ukukhetha marrying i-i-american umntu (akukho mcimbi kweminyaka), kwaye uyise ukuba Emelika, yena ingaba mhlawumbi yenze kwaye yakhe usapho ingaba mhlawumbi approve. Ke malunga imali kwaye amathuba kuya kuzisa. I-i-american European earns a esihogweni ka kakhulu ngakumbi (rhoqo baya xana malunga abahlala iindleko ekubeni ngaphezulu kakhulu nangona). Ngeli ukuba umfazi nkqu ukuba yena ngu highly educated zonke indlela ngezifundo? sele limited amathuba kunokuba umfazi abo efumana kunye a foreigner, ngenxa stagnant umsebenzi kwimakethi (zininzi kakhulu graduates) njalo yena ngu faced kunye Hobsons oyikhethileyo. Umsebenzi wokufama apho akahlawuli nto, ifektri umsebenzi apho akahlawuli nto okanye ke WG, judging yi-view-size isixa-mali kwi-HK nje ehamba jikelele kwi ezitratweni kwaye nkqu ngaphezulu Jordan iselwa ezimbalwa abafazi khetha oku route. Ndiyazi a kubekho inkqubela ngokuba Alice abantliziyo umyeni ingaba yena, yena usoloko ugcina ukuzama ukufumana kum enye omnye wakhe China ezisekelwe abahlobo (ndiza) ngoko ke, banako yokuphepha kakhulu. Njengoko apha nangona babe mhlawumbi glass ceilings akuvumelekanga njengoko restrictive njengoko emva ekhaya. Ndingumntu yeminyaka ubudala Australian umntu. Ndifumana-nyhuku ikhangeleka; snide izimvo kwaye abantu abaninzi uthetho olusezantsi xa bebona mna neqabane lam kakhulu pretty yeminyaka ubudala Isitshayina kubekho inkqubela kwi-bam ingalo. Nje iveki yokugqibela thina wahamba kwi-i-airport kunye kokubuya ukusuka kushishino uhambo. Mna overheard umfazi imetacity disgusting ukuba umyeni ngokuqinisekileyo kwi-kubhekiswa kum. Ndathi uxolo, yintoni ngokwenene disgusting. Yena uphendule Ayikwazi t ufuna ukufumana umfazi wakho kunye ubudala. Ndaphendula Ewe, yena yi-ekhaya ngoku. Yena. Yena nje stared. Ngoko ndathi. Yi – indlela, nceda kuhlangana ntombi yam Anita. Mna zithe watshata kuye Isitshayina mum kuba iminyaka. Kukuba ok kunye nawe. Yena flushed oqaqambileyo red kunye embarrassment. Ndathi kufuneka kuthabatha-nyhuku engqondweni ngaphandle gutter ntombi yam yavuthuza yakhe a asazanga kwaye thina wahamba ngaphandle laughing. Umfazi wam kwaye ndandidibana xa wayengomnye studying amayeza e-ngezifundo e-Australia. Yena ngoku ephambili thoracic surgeon. Intombi yethu sele Isitshayina imisebenzi efana yakhe mum. Ndiyacinga ukuba kwendlela ka ibali ngu musa t kuba judgmental. Ngaba ngokwenene musa t bazi inyaniso le meko ke yayo s eyona ukuba ingqondo weshishini lakho kwaye worry malunga eyakho ubomi. Manditsho ukufumana eli lungelo, ucela malunga i-american guy mhlawumbi okanye into ethile. Uhlala kwi-America kwaye andazi okanye ukuqonda ukuba kutheni. Ingqondo ukuba okwethutyana, ukuba ndithi kwaba okanye into ingaba ndifuna itshata umfazi owaye iminyaka yobudala engama-ngaphezu kwam. Hmmm ingaba ndifuna itshata umfazi wam ubudala apha kwi-NATHI ukuba kuphela wayecinga malunga herself. Okanye ingaba ndifuna itshata umfazi owaye wavusa ukuthatha care wakhe usapho kwaye kokuba phezulu amaxabiso usapho. Lo mfazi ingaba kundinceda ukuphila wam aphile kwaye ngexesha elinye ndiya kuyenza yakhe ubomi a kakhulu ubomi obungcono yakhe ukuze bonwabele. Ngoko ke kwiminyaka embalwa emva kokuba ndimkile, ndinga shiya yakhe ukumisela isixhobo kuba ubomi kunye wam umhlala-phantsi kwaye umvuzo wakhe kuba ubomi. Yena babenako ukuphila apho wandibulela njani wandibulela kwaye zange worry malunga ke emva ukuzonwabisa wayengomnye abahlala xa sifuna kuhlangatyezwana nazo. Liphi na umntu ongaphumelelanga kule game lobomi? Zonke mna bona ingaba winners. Na enye impendulo wathi, mna andazi ukuba mna ndikuye eli qela ucela malunga. Ndinguye, i-american, umfazi wam ngu Isitshayina ubudala Engineer enomsila. Emva kokuba mna kudlula, yena uya kuphela umsebenzi ukuba yena ufuna kuba kuphumla wakhe ubomi. Yena uya kwazi ukuba uhlale apha kwi-NATHI kwaye yiya ndwendwela yakhe usapho China xa yena ufuna. Njengoko kuba ngoku, sisebenzisa kunye ndonwabe kakhulu, ndim happiest ndinako ngonaphakade khumbula ke. Sisenza yonke into kunye. Nope, andinako khangela losers kule ukuzonwabisa. Kunjalo, kukho amadoda kakubi abafazi babo, oku ukwenza okungekho mthethweni akukho mcimbi ukuba umfazi ufumana i-american, Isitshayina okanye naluphi na olunye ugqatso. I-nickel abasebenzi inkokeli ngenene yabonisa wonke umntu uyazazi yakhe iimboniselo, ngolohlobo yena usoloko ingaba, lowo kufuneka bazi ukuba umntu lowo wathi, ndiyazi nto. Ndicinga ukuba wam dog unako ukwenza guesses ngcono kunoko. Andifuni t ukuba i-olusentloko kufuneka kwi age of the ezimbalwa. Yabo mutual utsalekoname kwaye chemistry ingaba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ngakumbi ebalulekileyo. Layo s njenge INKOLO, Ubuqu, ndinga t care ngaphantsi abo yintoni umntu worships. Mhlawumbi yakho ukuba aphendule umbuzo kwi-ezingachanekanga indlela oko basenokuba phrased. Kungani Isitshayina abafazi tshata abantu abakhoyo kakhulu ixesha elide impazamo kunoko ngaphezu kwabo? Le nto jumps ukuba ingqondo kukuba ukuba indoda yakhe ithe ukuba abe nempumelelo, ngempumelelo umntu ebone njengokuba icandelo lomboniso a okulungileyo mate ukuba unako nyusa usapho. Njengoko ndiya kuba aqwalasela abantu abaphila imali bakholisa ukuba abe kunoko. Le into ndine aqwalasela kwi-China kunye eliphakathi kweminyaka Isitshayina businessmen kunye younger ujonge ibhinqa inkampani ukuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba intombi yabo kodwa umthetho kakhulu ngokwahlukileyo. Ndinguye omnye abo kuni ukuthetha malunga. Kuqala i-Isitshayina abantu siphathe ladies njenge yesibini iklasi abantu. 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