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Yintoni neeyantlukwano phakathi dating i-i-american umntu versus a Isitshayina umntu? Kunjalo, wonke umntu budlelwane ngu ezahluka-hlukileyo. Ezona ngokubanzi kwaye kakhulu impendulo kukuba yakho kubudlelwane ne-Western umntu uzakuba ngakumbi casual. Makhe kuqwalasela le oluneenkcukacha distinctions phakathi budlelwane nabanye. China sele ngaphantsi casual dating kwe-America, kwaye oku sele kakhulu ukwenza ne-China ke conservative imbali. Ngexesha Imperial China, wokuba a iskora yaba enkulu ukubaluleka ngenxa yokuba ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo ubutyebi kwaye ubume kuba iintsapho (apho ngokulandelelanayo ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo ngcono umtshato ii-intshi). Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kunzima iskora exams baba eguquliweyo i kwi bale mihla China ke college abalindi ngasesangweni exam emisela yintoni ngezifundo ungafaka (kwaye nokuba uyakwazi nkqu faka ngezifundo). Yesikolo esiphakamileyo iintsuku kukho busiest for teenagers ngenxa rigorous esikolweni umsebenzi komhlaba eziyimfuneko gatka. Kwaye ngokungothusiyo, iintsapho ezininzi musa approve dating phambi college ngenxa ayibone njengokuba distraction ukusuka student uxanduva. Eneneni, budlelwane nabanye ngabo ngamanye amaxesha nkqu prohibited yi — ootitshala okanye iinqununu zezikolo kwi-China, abo kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba zabo abafundi hlala irekhodi. Kunjalo, flirting ingu langoku kuzo zombini cultures. Kodwa ukuba kukho dating phambi college ke kubalulekile idla agcina njengoko efihlakeleyo ukusuka abazali. Ukususela vula dating ayikho ngokufanayo phambi college, Amatshayina ngabantu ngokubanzi ngaphantsi ethambileyo kunye dating casually, kwaye ingaba ezininzi ezinzima xa ndihamba kwi budlelwane nabanye. Kwesinye isandla, dating e-United States ke casual ukuba abantu baya nkqu umhla njengoko indlela yokufumana ukwazi umntu ngcono. Ukuba babe nqakraza nge umntu, baya ngokulula yiya kwi ngaphezulu imihla. Kodwa China, abantu kaninzi kwe-hayi ingaba dating ukuzama ukufumana ezinzima okanye steady budlelwane. Kwisithuba nje nzulu ka-dating kwaye marital izinto ezikhethekayo ze-phakathi ulutsha nabantu abadala kwi-China, kuphela ipesenti ye-ibhinqa abaphenduli disagreed kunye nengxelo ukuba eyona kumhla kwaye emva koko enye kuphela umntu omnye ngexesha labo lifetimes. Uninzi Westerners kwaye Isitshayina abantu ingaba ufuna settle, kunye umtshato njengoko isiphelo imbono, kodwa Westerner ikholisa ngakumbi vula ukuba ukhetho kamva phantsi ubomi babo. Ke ngoko, Americans yokucinga umtshato njengoko isiganeko ukuba ingaba kwenzeka kamva phantsi ezindleleni. Nangona kunjalo, kuba Isitshayina abafazi, kukho societal ticking ikloko. Abafazi, kulindeleke ukuba tshata ngeli lixa basemazweni zabo phambi kwexesha ukuba mid-twenties. Eneneni, kukho nkqu uthabatha ixesha coined kuba abafazi abo asingawo watshata ngokuthi: ‘Leftover Abafazi. ‘Kwakhona, oku negativity kufuneka yenze kunye Isitshayina inkcubeko, ukususela umtshato ngu ebone njengoko ebalulekileyo inxalenye umntu ke uzinzo. Ukuba ke, kutheni amalungu osapho, ezifana oomawomkhulu, ndiya kwenza zabo eyona ukuba koxinzelelo kwaye persuade zabo grandkids enye xa sukuba sikwi ndawo yabo twenties. Kwesinye isandla, i-american iintsapho ingaba kakhulu ngaphantsi pushy ngalo mcimbi. Xa umntu evela China ngu dating omnye umntu, baya ukuba ziqhubele phambili bangena elizayo ngaphandle Westerners. Nokuba ngaba okanye hayi umntu umtshato-umgangatho uza mba kakhulu ngaphambi koko ukuba Isitshayina abantu kunokuba Westerners kwi-dating nkqubo. Umzekelo, Isitshayina kubekho inkqubela uza mhlawumbi care ngaphezu i-i-american kubekho inkqubela malunga guy ke usapho lwakhe ngasemva kwaye uzinzo yakhe iimeko abaphila. Lento kuba Isitshayina inkcubeko, abantu kulindeleke ukuba abe isiseko usapho, intsingiselo kubalulekile ukuba banayo zokusebenza kuba usapho. Abafazi jonga kuba abantu abathe indlu car ngenxa yokuba ibonisa ukuba umntu financially iityuwadefault colour kwaye ilungele umtshato. Xa le inqaku lencwadi wenziwe chu ifaka umbala kwi-bale mihla phinda-phinda, uzole uba yinyani kuba baninzi uninzi budlelwane nabanye kwi-China, kwi-imithetho Isitshayina girls ukulindela ukuba umntu ukunceda zikhathalele intombi yabo. Isitshayina couples kanjalo ngamanye amaxesha jonga ngamnye ezinye njenge -«indoda»kwaye»umfazi»nkqu xa abekho ngqo watshata nomnye isibonisi ye-ezinzima iziphumo zemisebenzi yokufama dating sele kuba baninzi Isitshayina abantu. Ze marriages ingaba xa ezimbalwa efumana watshata ngaphandle hayi ezingama-car okanye indlu. Kuba abantu, ekubeni i-apartment kwaye imoto ingaba rhoqo izinto ezifunwe kwixesha elidlulileyo ukuze umtshato iziphakamiso, ukuze babonise kwezezimali. Nangona kunjalo, emva yentengiso ungqubano, ‘ze umtshato’ ixesha waba popularized. Kunye unsteady kwimakethi zokukhula inyuke real estate amaxabiso, Xinhua Iindaba uqikelelo elo young abantu phezu ubudala ayikwazi afford kunye imoto kwaye indlu (Xinhua.) Kubalulekile kusenokwenzeka ukuba younger Isitshayina kwisizukulwana kanjalo rebelling ngokuchasene ‘esiqhelekileyo umtshato inkcubeko’ kwaye endaweni umleqa nyulu uthando, apho kwezoqoqosho uzinzo a mlingane ayi njengoko vital njengoko kwakunjalo. Uphando kanjalo ibonisa ukuba ngokwesini norms ingaba thatha ifaka umbala, nabafazi ingaba ngakumbi eager ukuba abe elizimeleyo, njalo iyeka i-notion ukuba umntu kufuneka anike indlu imoto. I-yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano ingaba eyona izizathu ngokwahlula phakathi dating umlinganiselo ka-Americans kwaye Isitshayina. Ngethemba lena ingaba ndakunika engcono unye ka-neeyantlukwano ka-dating a Isitshayina umntu versus i-i-american umntu. Kunjalo, dating stereotypes kukhankanywe asingawo strictly isetyenziswe ukuba wonke umntu ezingama-ngamnye inkcubeko kodwa ingaba generalizations. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo ngoku China sele ngaphantsi conservative ngaphezu kwayo oko kuya kusetyenziswa kuba amakhulu eminyaka eyadlulayo. Njengoko ixesha aqhubeke, akuyi kuba ngaphezulu similarities phakathi Western kwaye Isitshayina dating inkcubeko. Monica Chen yi iyanikela umbhali e Tutoring. Yena ukhulele kwi-California, phambi kokuba uyise ukuba Enew York ukumsukela i B. A. kwi-Neuroscience e Columbia Ngezifundo. Yayo kubasindisa xesha, yena enjoys ukutya touring, ukupeyinta, ubukele YouTube videos, kwaye isebenzisa igunya

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